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Aileen Stotter

Aileen Stotter

LMHC

Therapist · New York · 11+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for everyday struggles

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  • Skills focused
  • Strengths based
  • CBT informed

About Aileen

Aileen Stotter is a licensed mental health counselor who uses practical, skills-based work to help people manage emotional challenges. She focuses on stress, anxiety, anger, eating concerns, depression, and relationship struggles. Aileen keeps language simple and collaborative so parents and busy adults can follow along easily.

With 11 years of experience in New York, Aileen draws on straightforward techniques to address mood disorders and impulse-driven behavior. She encourages people to notice what is already working for them and to build on personal strengths. Sessions aim to break big problems into small, doable steps that fit daily life.

Her background includes helping people cope with family problems, family of origin issues, communication difficulties, and codependency. She also supports those dealing with body image, guilt and shame, and obsessive or compulsive patterns. Aileen frames difficult emotions as things to understand rather than failings.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, is a central part of her approach. She uses it to help people change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns that keep symptoms going. That approach is practical and focused on skills people can use between sessions.

Aileen emphasizes collaboration and respect for each person's story. She helps people set clear, achievable goals and tracks progress in simple ways. To start, she asks questions about what matters most and builds a plan around those priorities.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsEating disordersAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Body imageCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

CBT and practical approaches for online care

Aileen uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people notice and change thoughts and behaviors that make symptoms worse. CBT focuses on concrete tools such as thought records, behavior experiments, and step-by-step plans to reduce anxiety, manage anger, and address mood problems.

She emphasizes a collaborative process where the therapist and client decide which methods to try. That means discussing goals, trying a technique for a few sessions, and adjusting based on what helps. This shared decision making helps tailor the work to each person’s needs and preferences.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the session format options before booking since specific formats were not listed in the provided biography. Many people find online work helps fit therapy into a busy schedule, makes it easier to keep appointments, and supports consistent progress through short skill-practice between sessions. Licensed professionals can adapt CBT exercises to virtual meetings so clients still get practical tools and measurable steps toward their goals.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
11+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMHC · No. 010684-01
NPI
1043892508

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

Aileen works with stress, anxiety, anger, eating concerns, depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes, among other concerns.

What style of therapy does she use?

She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as a main approach, focusing on practical skills to change thoughts and behaviors that maintain distress.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 11 years of professional experience working with people on stress, anxiety, family conflict, eating issues, and anger management in New York.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a licensed mental health counselor, LMHC, and practices in New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States meet with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule based on therapist availability provided after matching.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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