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Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir

Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir

LCSW, LSCSW

Therapist · Kansas · 5+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical help for emotional self-control

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  • Strengths-based
  • Emotion regulation
  • Collaborative pace

About Adalheidur

Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir welcomes readers by name and speaks directly to people feeling overwhelmed by anger, stress, or life changes. She focuses on helping clients notice patterns, build small skills, and find clearer ways to respond when emotions run high. The opening work centers on practical steps that fit into a busy day and on discovering each person's strengths.

Ally uses straightforward talk and active listening to help people name what is happening for them. She draws on client-centered methods to make sessions collaborative and on cognitive behavioral ideas to identify unhelpful thoughts and try small behavior experiments. Dialectical behavior ideas and mindfulness practices are offered for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.

She brings five years of direct therapy experience to her practice and holds LCSW, which stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and LSCSW, which stands for Licensed Specialist Clinical Social Worker. Her work has included many concerns such as anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, ADHD, relationship and parenting questions, and grief.

Sessions are conducted from her Kansas practice and are offered in English and Icelandic. Ally emphasizes a strengths-based stance - she helps people locate their own resources and build on them one step at a time. The pace and focus are set together based on what feels most useful.

If someone is curious about starting, Ally asks prospective clients to use the site's Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire so scheduling can proceed according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Missouri, Kansas

Languages

English, Icelandic

How Ally’s Approaches Translate to Online Work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and partnership. In practice this means the therapist follows the client's lead, reflects concerns back, and helps set goals that matter to the person. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and uses brief experiments and behavior changes to reduce distress. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) supplies specific tools for emotion regulation and managing intense reactions, such as grounding and distress-tolerance skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Ally will collaborate to decide which methods fit a client's needs, goals, and preferences. That process includes checking in about what helps, trying techniques, and adjusting the plan together as progress is made.

The original profile does not list specific online formats, so confirm session options before booking. Many people find online therapy useful because it can make scheduling easier, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when life is busy. Online work can also make it simpler to practice mindfulness or skills between sessions and to bring real-life situations into discussion. Licensed professionals can adapt CBT and DBT techniques to remote sessions so the focus stays on practical strategies and steady skill building.

At a glance

Listed location
Kansas
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
LCSW, LSCSW
Languages
English, Icelandic
License (Missouri)
LCSW · No. 2020016843
License (Kansas)
LSCSW · No. LSCSW 05484
NPI
1285010421

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ally commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, anger, trauma and abuse, depression, self-esteem, grief, parenting pressures, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD, and other related concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. Sessions focus on identifying patterns, trying small behavior changes, and using mindful skills to manage strong emotions.

What is her background working with clients?

She has five years of clinical therapy experience and a broader 15-year social work background that included work with children and families before focusing on therapy.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She holds LCSW and LSCSW credentials and practices in Kansas.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English and Icelandic, and international clients are not accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original profile did not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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